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A few pages will now be devoted to a consideration of the
objections which have been urged against the system of
polygamy. And it may be proper to say, that if there should
be any objections to it which are not here answered to every
one's satisfaction, yet the superiority of this system is
still maintained and proven, as long as the previous
demonstrations remain valid; the objections to the contrary
notwithstanding. It is often the case that a proposition may
be true, and at the same time it may not be possible to
answer all the objections to it. There are unanswerable
objections to a democratic or popular form of government; and
yet for some nations, such a form of government may, on the
whole, be the best one.
DOES POLYGAMY CAUSE JEALOUSY?
It has been objected that polygamy cannot be reasonable or
right, since it causes jealousy among the different women in
the same family. But it cannot be proved that jealousy is
confined to any particular social system: it is,
unfortunately, too common to every system. It is inherent
in human nature, and must be regarded as one of its
inseparable infirmities. Yet, so far from being most violent
under the system of polygamy, the opposite is the fact; for
it is always most violent when secret intrigue is carried on,
and when the dreaded rival does not sustain an open and an
acknowledged relation to the husband, but when the
tender-ness between him and that rival, whether real or
suspected, is only secretly indulged: so that monogamy really
furnishes more occasion for the exercise of this cruel
passion than polygamy. In the latter system, the claims of
the different women are acknowledged and understood; the
parties all stand in well-defined relations to each other,
and violent jealousy, under such circumstances, must be
comparatively rare.