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AUDI ALTERAM PARTEM.
Philosophy takes nothing for granted. It doubts all things
that it may prove all things. The marriage question is a
proper subject of philosophical inquiry, involving an
examination and analysis of both polygamy and monogamy. Of
the latter form of marriage the Christian world has known too
much, and of the former too little, to have felt, hitherto,
the need of any analysis of either. We have inherited our
monogamy, or the marriage system which restricts each man to
one wife only, and have practised it as a matter ofcourse, without any
special examination or inquiry: so that
we really know little concerning its origin or its early
history; while we know still less of the system of polygamy.
We read something of it in the Bible and in the history of
Eastern nations, and we learn something more from the
reports of modern travellers; and it cannot be denied that
what we know of it has come to us in such a form as to
prejudice our minds against it. This prejudice is unfavorable
to a just and candid philosophical inquiry; and while
pursuing this inquiry, let us hold this prejudice in
abeyance. Let us not forget that what we have seen of this
system is in its most unfavorable aspects. Most travellers
carry their native prejudices abroad, and look upon the
customs of distant countries with less astonishment than
contempt. And they remember, when writing up their accounts
of those countries, that their books are made to be sold at
home; and they must not institute comparisons unfavorable to
their own laud, but must flatter the conceit of their
fellow-countrymen be assuring them that their own social and
political institutions are vastly better than those of other
lands.